By Ben Garraway and Lee Stanley.
It's a very well put together package for learning Snare and Kit and I have been using it for a long time. The (free to download) backing tracks are great too.
More info on this book (and it's predecessors) here: https://www.playdrumkit.net/
Buy your own song book for the relevant Grade, start with the links below and also check Amazon.
Trinity Rock & Pop > https://www.trinityrock.com/instruments/drums
Trinity Classical & Jazz > https://www.trinitycollege.com/qualifications/music/grade-exams/percussion
ABRSM > https://www.abrsm.org/en-gb/drum-kit
Rockschool > https://www.rslawards.com/learn-drums/
A music stand - https://amzn.eu/d/0f4tVesZ
A Metronome - https://amzn.eu/d/0a31i0xQ (or get an app for a device)
Sticks - 5A is a good size - https://amzn.eu/d/0812e8DL
A Practice Pad - https://amzn.eu/d/00U0AphS
Headphones - https://amzn.eu/d/0bzeegZe
Technique builders:
Stick Control and Accents & Rebounds by G.L Stone - These books date back to 1935! Legendary, never bettered.
Jazz Books:
The Jazz Drummers' Reading Workbook by Tom Morgan - Great for learning to Swing with a band.
Jazz Drumming Transitions by Terry O'Mahoney - Moving between common jazz styles.
The Sound of Brushes by Ed Thigpen - a brilliant book for learning brush movements - you can actually practice on the book.
Snare Drum:
50 Short Pieces for Snare Drum by Keith Bartlett - Classical style snare pieces from very easy to moderate level.
The All American Drummer by C.Wilcoxon - Another 'classic' great for learning Rudimental style drumming.
Playalongs and Method Books:
The Drummers Playalong by Cristiano Micalizzi. - Lot's a styles with charts to play through.
A Fresh Approach to Drumset by Mark Wessells - Loads of content, exercises, etudes and more.
Basic Drumming by Joel Rothman - a HUGE collection of things to learn.
Groove Essentials by Tommy Igoe - Grooves in different styles with charts to play.
Survival guide for the modern drummer by Jim Riley - The playalong tracks are the best part of this one.
Coming soon